Identity Crisis? Really? Lame.

So, Lee and I were out today looking for furniture/accessories. We put our house together based on what we both could scrounge together and tried to make it work. However, we're ready to kind of update and cohesivify (ha, not a word) our home and our look... which raises the question,

...what is our look?

We started talking about what we liked, didn't like, etc. and decided that we needed an inspiration piece, something that we both loved that we could build a room around. This led to a discussion about how everything available seems to fit into a box/category: contemporary, traditional, minimalist, eclectic... what happens when you're a little bit of all of them?

This got me thinking about my own life. Kelli can attest to the fact that my personal "style" seems to encompass a little bit of everything. While I was in the education department, I did a decent job of emulating a good "teacher" look. Now I'm being slowly transformed into the artsy/outreachy "Wesley" look. Blast.

What do we learn from this? Talking through it with Lee, basically I have become That Girl, the post-grad who realizes that-after 16 years of school and plenty of down time to realize this earlier-I don't actually know who I am. If someone were to come up to me tomorrow and say, "You can design your perfect job, no pre-reqs, no conditions, just whatever you want to do," I would have no freaking idea.

An identity crisis after college is so trite, it's sickening. However, that's where I am. I don't know who I am. God, I need You to tell me who I am, who You see me as, who You designed me to be. I can't believe that You created me as this crazy conglomeration of personalities without some purpose.

Lee and I decided that now I need the inspiration piece for my life, that perfect thing that I can build the rest of my dreams and passions out of.

I need to know what drives me before I can know what it's driving me towards.

Go figure.

Just wanted to share this most recent revelation that I don't know who I am. Scary. Weird. But oddly, naming the nebulous emotion that I've been carrying around since dropping out of student teaching is helpful. I can't find my identity in my works or achievements anymore, and I don't want to be scared of responsibility. I want God to take me aside and give me a pep talk about who I am and what I can/should do in Him. That would be fun. Love you all lots!

Receiving love

He loves me. He actually loves me. I was conceived in the heart of God for His pleasure.

I’ve been running away from love for as long as I’ve been a Christian. It’s just too scary to face Him with all of my weakness and ask Him to love me. A long time ago I started believing that something was seriously wrong with me, and I was pretty much unlovable.

Repentance makes sense to me. I can weep before God about my sin. I can tell Him why I am awful and screwed up, but it’s so hard to believe that He would love me. I want this paradigm to change!

At times He has overwhelmed me, and I just can’t get away from His love. But ultimately, I keep finding myself back in this place of trying to measure up or attain some standard that is worthy of love. Or, I just give up completely and try to find ways to satisfy myself.

I want to be okay with not being strong. I want to be okay with being laid bare before Him. I want to wait in the pain and not run away. I want to actually let Him love me. I want to trust that He would love me in my failure.

I’ve tasted His love. I’ve felt His embrace. I don't want to live for anything else.

Lyrics

So I've been really stuck in the Isaiah stuff I put on here in the last blog entry. It's been like a lifeline for me lately. Anyways, I have no musical talent so I can't write a song. But I did write lyrics FOR a song using that scripture, life recently, and some other verses from Isaiah and I wanted to share it with you guys! My hope is that it will encourage. Love y'all

(Verse)

If in this moment, honesty…I’m sitting here ashamed.

Cause I’ve heard the truth and seen the light, But I’m back to my old ways

My little mind can’t comprehend Why you took my heavy yoke

And the bonds on my raw wrists, Lord, You suffered, died, and broke.

Could the simple really be enough, that by Your grace I’m free?

And if it’s so, then why, why?? do I still cling to slavery?

 (Verse)

I break your heart a thousand times, Cheat in dark of night.

Pretend my sin is secretive, Though plain within Your site

I go upon the highest hill. And under every tree.

Playing role of harlot comes, To me too naturally.

I have pondered in the secret place, Why You always take me back

And to Your jealous storm of love, In the end I’m always back

 (maybe like a bridge or something?)

Comfort’s claimed for contrite hearts, from within Your piercing word

Peace to him who’s near or far, faint or fully sure.

I know You won’t contend forever, You see my spirit’s lowly

Create a praise upon my lips, for I know Your name is HOLY

 (Chorus)

I’ll wait on You For as long as it takes.

I will wait on You Right here in this place

I’ll wait on You For as long as it takes

I will wait on You ‘Til I see Your face.

Cause You’re the only one worthy

The only one worthy,

The only one worthy,

Of this healing heart

Him who is far

"And it will be said,

'Build up, build up, prepare the way,

Remove every obstacle out of the way of My people.'

For thus says the high and exalted One

Who lives forever, whose name is Holy, 

'I dwell on a high and holy place,

and also with the contrite and lowly of spirit

In order to revive the spirit of the lowly

And to revive the heart of the contrite.

'For I will not contend forever;

Nor will I always be angry;

For the spirit would grow faint before me,

And the breath of those whom I have made.

'Because of the iniquity of his unjust gain

I was angry and struck him;

I hid My face and was angry,

And he went on turning away, in the way of his heart.

'I have seen his ways, but I will heal him;

I will lead him and restore comfort to him and his mourners,

Creating the praise of the lips.

Peace, peace to him who is far and to him who is near,'

Says the Lord, 'and I will heal him.'"

-Isaiah 57:14-19

Love you guys. Miss you.

They had been with Jesus

I need some insight...

the first few chapters of Acts are powerful, and i love peter's preaching!
i am tripped up on something though


Here is some background:
2:38
repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit

2:43
and awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles


after the lame man gets healed through peter's faith in Jesus and they are arrested and before the council, the council has this to say:
3:13
now when they saw the boldness of peter and john, and perceived that they were uneducated, common men, they were astonished. and they recognized that they had been with Jesus.

acts 4:29-31
And now, Lord, look upon their threats and grant to your servants to continue to speak your word with all boldness, while you stretch out your hand to heal, and signs and wonders are performed through the name of your holy servant Jesus.” And when they had prayed, the place in which they were gathered together was shaken, and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and continued to speak the word of God with boldness.

5:12-13
now many signs and wonders were regularly done among the people by the hands of the apostles. and they were all together in solomon's portico. none of the rest dared join them, but the people held them in high esteem.




why would that be? why would the apostles be the only ones walking in the power and boldness of the Holy Spirit? The others were also filled with the Holy Spirit. All I have seen so far in healings and miracles are by the faith of the apostles.

thoughts??

To be known...

It is a wonderful thing to be known. The times I fear it before the Lord are the times when I do not realize that I am known. I am already known.

Romans 5:8
"But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us"


I have this deep desire in me to be known- it feeds so much of my interaction and a lot of my thoughts. And yet the Lord must constantly remind me that He knows me fully. Every crisis I come to, it is my peace and new-found adoration that He knows me. I rest in the knowledge that the Lord knows. And we may also rest, knowing as we lay ourselves naked before Him, that He loves us fully. He is unshockable. And yet I believe He is moved. He knows all, and yet His Son asks that we speak with Him.


Song of Solomon 2:14
"My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely."


What if the sound of His Name coming from our lips moves Him? What if He loves the sound of His Name when uttered by His betrothed? What if it brings Him joy as it would a Father to hear His children call to Him by Name.


John 16:26-27
"In that day you will ask in my name. I am not saying that I will ask the Father on your behalf. No, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from God."


We speak to the Father under the Name of His Son, not so that Jesus will ask for us, but because the Lord is moved at the Name of His Son. And any who love His Son love Him.


Song of Solomon 1:3
Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the maidens love you!


His Name is like perfume poured out. When I need Him most and He proves Himself faithful; when I am left dependent upon Him and He shows Himself trustworthy; when all else fails and yet He remains stable: it is in these moments when His Name upon my lips is like perfume poured out. When there is nothing so sweet as His Name. Simply His Name. And no one says His Name like I do. And no one says His Name like you do.

To be known...

Psalm 139:1-17

For the director of music. Of David. A psalm.

¹ O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.

² You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.

³ You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.

⁴ Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.

⁵ You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.

⁶ Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.

⁷ Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?

⁸ If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, ^a]"> you are there.

⁹ If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,

¹⁰ even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.

¹¹ If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,"

¹² even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.

¹³ For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.

¹⁴ I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.

¹⁵ My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

¹⁶ your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.

¹⁷ How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!

someone write something! i miss you all and your thoughts/revelations!!!! LOOOOOVE

How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered!

Most of y'all know that I have been really frustrated for a while now with figuring out how to live out the Christian life. I want to do it perfectly, and I can't. I've felt so disconnected from the Lord's love, but I haven't known how to get back. This morning I got revelation again of the Lord's mercy. It's nothing you don't know, but it started to make sense in my heart and mind again today so I thought I'd share.

For a long time now I've been confessing things to the Lord, but not letting Him take them away. This morning in 7:30 prayer I was basically giving myself a lecture about how I have to live with the consequences of my sin even though I am forgiven. To some extent this is true that there are earthly consequences, but I had it really confused. He has taken away all separation between us. Jesus died and took the penalty for me. He forgives all of my sins and heals all of my diseases. He removes my transgression from me. I don't have to confess and then stay under it. He desires mercy not sacrifice.

This kind of love messes with me. I don't understand it. God goes after us in our sin. He brings back the captive ones from Zion. Basically, the ones in compromise and sin who are under judgment, He redeems out of their punishment. In Judges, over and over again God raises up a deliverer to bring His people out of the captivity created by their sin!

Also, all morning He's been teaching me from Psalm 32:

"Blessed is the man to whom the Lord does not impute iniquity:" to impute means to regard, reckon, or value...in other words, the Lord doesn't assess our value or look at us according to our sin, but according to His love!

Also, He urges us not to be brought near by "bit and bridle" but by His lovingkindness (vs 9-10). In my life I've tried to live and respond to discipline and consequences. This isn't the Lord's heart at all. He's forgiven me, and THAT is His invitation and my motivation to run to Him!

I can't get over how incredible His mercy is! Jesus gave His ALL in love for us while we were yet sinners.

Anyway, I love you all!

No one writes in me WAHHH

I don't have much to say, but no one ever puts new stuff in here so anything's probably better than nothing? Maybe? I might prove this to be wrong. Well, the Scroll's the Scroll so I guess it will speak for itself! So here's a verse I'm REALLY appreciating right now:

"WHEN I PASSED YOU AND SAW YOU SQUIRMING IN YOUR BLOOD, I SAID TO YOU WHILE YOU WERE IN YOUR BLOOD, 'LIVE.' YES, I SAID TO YOU WHILE YOU WERE IN YOUR BLOOD, 'LIVE.'" -EZEKIAL 16:6

wow.

Karlee

Hey Karlee--
I opened it up so that anyone can read it, so your friend should be able to access it now. If possible, though, could I have his email address so I can just add him to the permissions? Aderhold has made me overly cautious about public things online...